Cheaters!!!!

Webster defines cheaters as one guilty of swindle or dishonesty. Lets think about it for a second... if you have been following my blogs you will notice the one thing i hate about humans and that is selffishness. Dishonesty ruins relationships, cheating makes a person's personality even more apparent - non worthy of trust.

What i dont understand is how can people live with their cheating hearts and bodies. No respect for themselves as to who they are. The reason for my fury over this topic is that i recently read a book "against love" i was fine uptill then but when my friend calls me at two in the morning hoping i can hang out with him so i can be there for him made me pissed. Hoping something really bad had happened i ran towards his house at 2:12 am in my Pjs. The entire time i am thinking what can be so darn important that couldnt wait till morning. As i parked my car at 2:45 outside his house i see him smoking like a chimney, and seeing me he lets himself go. According to him no one else came to his rescue but me (that made me feel a little shitty) but he continues his story.

I saw him in the morning for my class, the happiest person alive why? cause he was hoping to get out of there early so he can go see his girlfriend in Ohio State University. They have been going out for almost 2 years now and he loves her and so does she. I remember sitting in a bar with him and how he would talk to me about his girlfriend, but he was worried at the same time since she was just felt different, but he paid no or minimal attention to it since she assured him that there was nothing wrong and that there is a lot going on with her and that even he is busy with his jobs and classes. After 3 months of the excuses he went to see her at Ohio State and finds out that she was just having feelings for someone else. He wasnt upset about her having feelings for someone else rather he was feeling upset about that fact that she kept it from him for all these months PRETENDING that everything is okay. Well she wanted to get that off her chest and so she did and what she gets in return is a nice guy slipping out of her hands for her stupidity and dishonesty. He was hung up on her statement "I am glad i got that out of my system now things will be better i guess" I assured him that she was just scared about his response if she told you over the phone and helped him relax a bit.

I think that people playing with hearts and feelings are just cheating themselves and others. Scared??? Why be Scared in the first place, relationships are made based on honesty not who is scared of whom and under what circumstances. I felt like shit the whole time i was there cause i just cant imagine how immature people can get. *Disgusted*